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Take back control of your emotional and psychological wellbeing with online counselling
 
With Mary Prime @ Flourishing MK - Counselling and Health and Wellness Coaching 

Life is filled with ups and downs, a natural part of our human experience as we balance various roles and priorities. Despite our best efforts, there may be moments when we feel overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, or depression. Many people express that while others seem to be managing well, they struggle to do the same.

 

It's important to remember that everyone faces challenges, even if they aren't visible from the outside. You may have a large support network or a small circle, but it can often feel daunting to share your struggles with loved ones. If you've sought medical help but find that prescribed medication isn't the right fit for you, exploring alternative mental health options is a valid step. No matter your reasons for visiting my site, know that you are not alone, and support is available.

 

I’d like to share more about myself and my counselling approach to help you decide who might best support you on your journey.

 

I focus on empowering clients to create a meaningful life. Many of my clients navigate various challenges. Including chronic health conditions, neurodivergent identities like autism and ADHD, anxiety, depression, relationship issues. Also, managing various life transitions, such as leaving home to start University, leaving University to start your career. Starting a family, relationship breakdowns and the death of someone in your life. Whatever your reasons for seeking support, you are very welcome in my counselling practice.

 

While I strive to provide accessible online support, please remember that these sessions are not a substitute for emergency services. If you are in crisis, I encourage you to reach out to a crisis service. You can make an emergency GP appointment, phone 111 option 2. Or phone the Samaritans on 116123, or text 'SHOUT' to 85258 to speak to a trained volunteer.

 

Through counselling, my hope is to help you transform life's challenges into opportunities for personal growth and self-development. Enabling you to live more comfortably and to reach your full potential as a person. As a qualified and experienced Person-Centred Counsellor, I have extensive experience assisting clients with diverse issues.

 

I am particularly interested in supporting adults diagnosed with autism or ADHD, or those individuals who have self-diagnosed and considering the pros and cons of navigating the assessment process as an adult. As a late diagnosed female with Autism and ADHD, I know first hand how this can be both an exciting and a stressful time for people. You can find out more about yourself during this process and hopefully find some answers if you have been questioning for a while whether you are neurodivergent.

 

Whilst I can't diagnose these conditions, nor will I tell you what to do, my hope is that I can support you to process this change and manage the impact on your identity.

 

I also assist clients coping with bereavement, chronic pain, and other long-term health conditions and other mild to moderate mental health challenges, such as anxiety disorders and depression. I will be guided by you in what language you use and feel comfortable with - to describe the struggles that you are experiencing.

 

My background includes a long history of working in the National Health Service (NHS), most recently as as a Psychological Wellbeing Practitioner in an NHS Talking Therapies service. This role involves a holistic approach to your physical and mental health. I encourage self-management of your conditions, by teaching you about the condition and encouraging you to learn CBT tools and techniques so you can learn to help yourself with your current difficulties.

 

Since the-19 pandemic, I transitioned my counselling private practice online. Providing sessions via Teams, or Zoom, and offering telephone sessions for those who prefer a different mode of connection. Online counselling provides several benefits, including being in  the comfort of your own home whilst you access your sessions. Having flexibility in scheduling appointments around your other daily commitments. Also, the ability to connect with me for your sessions from anywhere in the country, all while ensuring confidentiality and discretion. If you need support, I encourage you to take that first step toward developing a stronger, more empowered future and begin crafting the life you desire.

 

On a personal note, as part of my self-care I enjoy spending time outdoors in nature. Recently I went to the Patch MK and enjoyed taking photos in their sunflower fields. Sunflowers are a particular favourite of mine as they represent hope and positivity and make me feel very happy, as seen in my photos. Sunflowers also reflect my branding for my business, which is based upon flourishing as an individual alongside your challenges. If you're ever in the Milton Keynes area, I recommend visiting the Patch MK for a delightful family day out. Please see their website: https://thepatchmk.co.uk/

I enjoyed the swing that they had in amongst the sunflowers at the Patch MK

Please use the crisis numbers below if you need emergency support

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I love the metaphor of a caterpillar morphing into a beautiful butterfly. It can be a lovely way to symbolise change throughout your life.  

As a reminder here are some of the crisis numbers that I referred to earlier. Please don't hesitate to get the support that you need.

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My Story

Mary Prime:

 

I was drawn towards training as a counsellor in my early thirties after experiencing chronic pain and periods of anxiety and depression. Throughout my counselling training and my experience of working with the many clients that I have worked with I have drawn on my lived experiences to offer enhanced empathy and understanding to the clients experiences. 

 

Following a diagnosis of Autism and ADHD now in my early forties this answered a lot of questions for me regarding various struggles that I have had throughout my life. Now finally things have started to make sense. I regularly read audio books and do research on these conditions with the aim of sharing this knowledge and personal lived experience with the clients that I am working with. I know for some people it can be a huge relief to work with a professional counsellor who truly understands what they are going through on a daily basis. 

I first qualified in 2018 after studying a diploma in person-centred counselling. Enhancing my knowledge and professional skills is a really important aspect of my counselling practice. I have a certificate in online counselling skills which I achieved in 2020 and am currently studying towards a degree in Counselling and Psychology with the Open University. I believe that change is possible at any stage of life and with or without a disability, or long-term health condition. I will always strive to encourage my clients to take any opportunity available for self-growth and personal development.

I set up my private practice in Milton Keynes with the aim of providing affordable and accessible counselling to my clients. I know how vital the support from personal counselling can be and still access my own personal therapy to continue on my journey of self-awareness and self actualisation. In person centred therapy we are always on a lifelong journey of personal growth and actualisation.

 

I have a particular interest in working with clients who are living with chronic pain and other long-term health conditions. This was developed after living with my own chronic pain condition for ten years and experiencing first hand the difference that personal counselling, alongside medical treatment and other self-care practices can make in pain management and eventual flourishing, where you can live the life that you want alongside your condition. Many clients have found it helpful to know that I truly understand the huge physical and emotional toll that chronic pain can have on your mind and body.

I have been working as a qualified Person-Centred Counsellor in various voluntary charitable organisations since 2018, working with clients on either a short, or long-term basis. My current voluntary placements include working with the charity Harmless, based in Nottingham, United Kingdom (https://harmless.org.uk/) and Hitchin Counselling Service, based in Hitchin, United Kingdom (https://www.hitchincounsellingservice.org.uk/). 

 

I enjoy helping clients to identify and work towards achieving their personal goals in therapy.  In a warm, gentle, non-judgemental and supportive therapeutic relationship clients are enabled to work through the issues that are causing them to feel stuck, lonely, depressed, anxious..... I take great pride in being alongside and supporting my clients as they make progress and develop the life that they want to live.

I also have experience in working with carers and with people who have experienced bereavements and other major life changes.

As a counselling professional and a person I enjoy working creatively. If you wish to you can have the opportunity to work with creative mediums as part of the counselling work. Working with creative mediums as part of the counselling process can enable a greater depth of self-exploration.

 

I look forward to meeting you to see how we could best work together in therapy and helping to support you in achieving your personal goals. Please get in touch to learn more.

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Person-Centred Counselling

Person-centred counselling provides the support that you are looking for in a safe, non-judgemental space. You will be encouraged to come as you are. There is no set agenda for each session, so we will be able to explore whatever is on your mind. We can then tailor each session to your unique needs and enable you to rediscover and develop your inner resources.

 

Read on to find out more...

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One-to-One Personal Counselling

Rediscover your 'self' with person-centred counselling

With so many different types of counselling available in current times,  it can then be difficult to know what each type is, what the therapy involves and how it might help you.

The British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) gives some really useful information about Person Centred Counselling and how it might help you. Read on to discover more...

Person-centred counselling is one of the humanistic modalities or approaches to counselling. It was founded in the 1940s by the American psychologist Carl Rogers who believed that, given the right conditions, a person can reach their full potential and become their true self, which he termed ‘self-actualisation’. This actualisation process is innate and accessible to everyone.

 

To help you achieve self-actualisation, the person-centred therapist will offer a therapeutic relationship characterised by the following conditions:

  • unconditional positive regard (UPR) – accepting and valuing you as a unique individual.

  • congruence - being honest and transparent in how they experience you and your world.

  • empathic understanding – seeing what you describe from your viewpoint as if they were you.

 

When you’re attending counselling sessions with a person-centred counsellor, you’ll be encouraged to bring your own issues to the session – what it is that you want to talk about.  The counselling is led by you and not directed by the counsellor, as you are the expert in yourself.

 

This can be difficult to get used to at first, especially if you are not used to talking about yourself and your feelings with another person. Many clients, with no prior knowledge of counselling, believe that the counsellor will sort their problems out for them and tell them what to do. No counsellor can do this for you, however, what a person-centred counsellor will do is help you to explore your own issues, feelings, beliefs, behaviour, and worldview, so you can become more self-aware and achieve greater independence from what you believe you 'should' be doing, based on others views and opinions. 

If like me you enjoy watching videos to discover more, please see the following: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GnCNN5Sxeec

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Vidyamala Burch - Mindfulness for Health

“You can be in pain, but you need not suffer”

Vidyamala Burch is a particular hero of mine. Her work creating the 8-week Mindfulness for Health was what helped me to turn my life around when I was early on in my chronic pain journey.

If you haven't heard of Breathworks, or of Vidyamala I would highly recommend you check then out. For more information about mindfulness based pain management please see: https://www.breathworks-mindfulness.org.uk/mbpm 

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Schedule a Session

The first steps to starting your counselling journey will be to contact me to schedule an assessment session.

 

This will give us the opportunity to meet. During the assessment I will ask you some questions about yourself, including some personal details about your medical history, your previous experiences of therapy, your family relationships and any other important relationships in your life. 

 

I will ask you about what has been happening for you both recently and in the past and the reasons that you would like to access counselling. Together we can decide if counselling with me is right for you at this time. If it isn't then we can look at other agencies, or services that may suit your needs better at this time. You will be given time and space to ask me any questions that you may have.

 

Sessions are offered on a sliding scale from £35 - £45 per hour. I would ask you to choose the fee that is most comfortable for you to pay and this is the price that you will pay for the assessment session and any further sessions that you have with me.

Sessions can be on a short-term basis, or on a longer-term arrangement. Depending on your goals for therapy and what it is that you would like to work on in therapy. 

I run my online counselling practice from Milton Keynes, in the United Kingdom.

Please reach out to me via my email: flourishingmk@outlook.com

My mobile number is: 07525592121

Please note that I am not always available to answer calls. The best way to contact me is usually via email, or text. Then I will get back to you as soon as I can. 

I can be found on Social Media, on Facebook and Instagram. Please like and follow my accounts if you would like to see counselling-related content.

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